Have you ever thought about what it’s like to welcome someone new into your family? That’s exactly what Shelly and Lyn have been doing for years—they’ve been Nottinghamshire County Council foster carers for a very long time, helping over 100 children feel safe and cared for in their home.

Lyn says, “We started fostering because we wanted to help children feel loved and safe. It’s like being a big family, where everyone is welcome.”

Shelly and Lyn have taken care of children of all ages, from tiny babies to teenagers. They’ve even helped teenagers learn how to live on their own when they grow up. One of their favourite memories is taking a child to the seaside for the first time.

“Seeing their excitement when they felt the sand and saw the sea was magical,” says Lyn. Shelly adds, “Even small things, like giving a child a Christmas present or a party dress, can mean the world to them. It shows them they matter.”

Shelly and Lyn believe fostering is all about helping children feel like they belong. They’ve stayed close to many of the children they fostered, and some even see them as grandparents now.

“It’s so special to know we’ve made a difference,” Shelly says.

Anyone considering fostering is encouraged by Shelly and Lyn to gather as much information as possible and ask plenty of questions. While fostering can be incredibly rewarding, it comes with challenges such as increased training, paperwork, and the need for flexibility. They stress the importance of family support, explaining that having loved ones to lean on during tough times is essential. Confidentiality is key in fostering, so having a trusted support system makes all the difference.

Shelly and Lyn also emphasise that fostering is open to everyone, regardless of gender, background, or family structure. Single mums, single dads, same-sex couples, and traditional families can all provide the loving and safe environment children need. What truly matters is a big heart, a sense of humour, and the ability to adapt to unexpected situations.

Despite the challenges, they say fostering is one of the most worthwhile things you can do, as it offers a chance to make a life-changing impact on a child’s future.

Cllr Hardyal Dhindsa, representing the Lead Council’s Cabinet Member for Foster East Midlands said:

Shelly and Lyn have dedicated their lives to fostering, providing love, care, and a safe home to over 100 children. Their commitment shows how fostering can truly transform lives, from helping babies and teenagers feel secure to guiding young adults toward independence. Their story proves that a big heart and a welcoming home can change a child’s future forever. The council is deeply grateful for their unwavering dedication and the incredible support they’ve given to so many children.

If you’ve been inspired by Shelly and Lyn’s story and want to make a difference in a child’s life, why not take the first step towards fostering? Contact Foster for East Midlands, your local council fostering team for Nottingham City, Nottinghamshire, Derby City, and Derbyshire. Call 03033 132 950 or visit the website at fosterforeastmidlands.org.uk to learn more.

A warm, safe, and loving home could change a child’s future—and it starts with you.